Thats where it should go.
Hhhhm, strange....
Anyway, I play other strategy games, here is a screenshot in CK2 with the Game of Thrones mod.
As you can see I play as the unimportant Mallister family.
The game started with only the small oldstones region, I soon had a decent claim on the crossing and enough money to hire the required mercs to take on their armies.
After that there was a time of peace and I got my Heir to inherit the Trident.
Again, after he produced a Heir I got him (trough some bribing) to marry the Lady of Harrenhall, I'm now playing as that character and preparing to cut myself lose from the Riverlands and place myself directly below the Iron Throne.
Note: the Bay of Claws is not (yet) part of my realm, it just has the same color in this picture....